SierraBella’s comment yesterday that her “stuff is unrestrained,” reminds me of a therapist I used to see, years ago, before I even went to school to become a therapist. At the time I was in the corporate world, wearing suits, silk blouses and pumps. (Not really me.) The therapist wore jeans, and she said to me, “It’s that time of the month, do you mind if I get comfortable?”
I didn’t know what she meant, but I’m all about people getting comfy, so I told her to go right ahead. She undid her belt, unbuttoned and unzipped her jeans, and curled up on the couch, just hangin’ loose. This was a major factor in my deciding to become a therapist. Although, for the record, I have never undone my pants in my office when a client was present.